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FlowCast #36 | Envy

We face a lot of emotions that get in the way of finding our flow. Maybe there are no bad emotions but one of the most insidious for flow and creativity is envy. This week we talk about the downside of envy and how you can work to eliminate this obtrusive state of mind.

00:45 - Topic of the day - Envy

1:30 - What is envy and how does it lead to issues when it’s the driver?

3:00 - The slippery slope of envy

4:00 - The envy triangle

5:00 - Longing towards someone else’s luck

7:45 - Shout out to Tony Francis

8:00 - Luck Article idea - [I messed up the story - the guy was located near the London Bombing, not the World Trade Centre for September 11.]

9:30 - Shift towards more gratitude and optimism

11:30 - What if the other person is just more lucky? *

13:15 - The envy of longing for possessions

14:30 - Wanting the end point without the effort to get there

16:15 - The Hedonic Treadmill of envy*

17:45 - Don’t feel envy if you have contentment *

19:15 - Contentment is not stagnation *

20:15 - Avoid envy by Creating before Consuming

22:30 - Envy creeping in

24:30 - Idea inception

25:00 - You feel bad emotions more when you’re exhausted

28:30 - Don’t prime your day with anxiety

Resources

Thinking, Fast and Slow - Daniel Kahneman

"Just My Luck" - From Men's Health, December 2005

Subtle Art - Mark Manson

Creative Calling - Chase Jarvis

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The FlowCast is brought to you by Flow Spa. Flow Spa is Peterborough’s float therapy and sports recovery centre, dedicated to providing the ultimate relaxation experience. Whether you need physical relief from pain or a deep state of mental relaxation and calm or the best methods of recovery from athletic training, Flow Spa is where you can Find Your Flow.

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FlowCast #35 | "The Runs" with Josh and Dan

Josh Chessman and Dan Growden are two close friends of ours who are also incredible endurance athletes. They've put together a unique trail run get-together at Haroldtown Conservation Area in Peterborough for November 30. In this episode we dive into what inspired this challenge for them, how to participate, and the tips and tricks (or lack thereof) that Dan and Josh will be using to perform their best at this event. The link to join this trail run challenge is: https://theruns.itsyourrace.com/register/?fbclid=IwAR3M3u9feq6u6-EfymyOSq73yp8mapQjC36jN_5QZbiTwpHRA2zdkhCqmOQ

0:00 - PSA on this episode before getting started

2:30 - Podcast start

3:45 - Dan’s Intervention

5:30 - Siri joins the conversation

6:00 - The Runs - Haroldtown race description

7:45 - Could you walk the race?

9:15 - What trail the race is taking place on?

11:00 - What spurred this race on?

12:00 - Dan’s running history

13:15 - Dan’s sports background

14:30 - Does endurance stick with you after many years of building it up?

15:30 - Embrace the grind

16:30 - Josh’s past endurance challenges

19:30 - What advice would you give to other competitors?

21:15 - We’re all in the same boat *

22:30 - Polish some mindset skills - Cold showers *

25:30 - Be normal fit, do different shit*

26:00 - Breathing techniques for running are critical

27:00 - Winter running and breathing

27:45 - Nutritional strategies for the race

29:30 - John Berardi - race nutrition advice

31:15 - Josh running 25 km with just 40 mL of water

33:00 - The sympathetic effects of running

34:00 - Just going with the flow of the race versus being very precise

35:00 - Bakers, cooks, chefs

37:00 - Being body oriented first

38:00 - Unplugged - Self-awareness and not paralysis from analysis

38:45 - footwear

40:00 - Hot Feet

41:00 - Barefoot running

48:15 - Cost of the race

51:30 - Do something hard without receiving praise*

Resources

Dr. Sean Episode

Josh Chessman episode

Unplugged - Brian Mackenzie and Andy Galpin

Xero Terraflex shoes

Dain and Freya - Move Daily - Emily Splichal episode

Race Sign Up Site

Subscribe to the FlowCast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-flowcast/id1456647259

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The FlowCast is brought to you by Flow Spa. Flow Spa is Peterborough’s float therapy and sports recovery centre, dedicated to providing the ultimate relaxation experience. Whether you need physical relief from pain or a deep state of mental relaxation and calm or the best methods of recovery from athletic training, Flow Spa is where you can Find Your Flow.

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The Stoic Fighter Returns! FlowCast #34 with Mike Doherty

The stoic fighter Mike Doherty returns to the FlowCast to talk about mindset training and coming back from a loss as a fighter. This episode is sure to get you fired up and teach you some critical points to keep in mind when you are seeking mastery and finding your flow!

1:30 - Special Announcement for Josh and Dan’s Trail Race

3:00 - Mike Doherty returns

4:00 - WAKO K1 Championships

5:00 - Losing the game by losing yourself

7:30 - The differences between Canadian fighters and European fighters

9:15 - Why Mike won’t be going back

11:00 - Mike’s main takeaways from the tournament

13:30 - Handling the weight cut for a whole week

16:30 - How Mike prepares for a fight

19:30 - Measuring training metrics after training versus before

22:30 - Debriefing in fighting

26:00 - Stoicism and fighting

27:30 - How to detach as a fighter

31:45 - The science of success

35:00 - 3 stages of mastery

38:00 - Autopilot and visualization practice

40:45 - Using aggression to get you going

45:00 - Epithets that Mike lives by

Resources

Finding Mastery Podcast

Free Solo - Alex Honnold

Stillness is the Key - Ryan Holiday

Impact Theory Podcast

Awaken the Giant Within - Tony Robbins

Subscribe to the FlowCast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-flowcast/id1456647259

Spotify:

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowspaon/

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The FlowCast is brought to you by Flow Spa. Flow Spa is Peterborough’s float therapy and sports recovery centre, dedicated to providing the ultimate relaxation experience. Whether you need physical relief from pain or a deep state of mental relaxation and calm or the best methods of recovery from athletic training, Flow Spa is where you can Find Your Flow.

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What I Learned From Tony Robbins | FlowCast #33

This past week I (RJ) attended the Power of Success seminar in Toronto where Tony Robbins and friends gave engaging talks on success and their different strategies for making monumental differences in your life. I wanted to immortalize this information-packed day, so I talk a bit about the environment itself and the other guests before focusing in on the Tony Robbins part of the day!

3:00 - The types of characters at the seminars

7:30 - Vivian Ricci - Real estate broker - believe and attend

9:30 - John Gray - Authenticity and masculine/feminine balance

13:00 - Phil Town - Rule One Investing

16:00 - Trainer to the celebrities Sonni - the health pyramid

17:00 - Molly Bloom - mindset, character, action

19:00 - JT Foxx - Eliminate negativity, build your brand

22:30 - Lunch break

24:00 - Gary John Bishop - The space between promises and actions

26:30 - Rachel Hollis - Intentional, Grateful, Get Uncomfortable, Stand Back Up, Memento Mori

30:30 - The big man, Tony Robbins

37:45 - On stage versus learning from Tony other ways

38:30 - Motion = Emotion

41:30 - Tony's story

44:30 - Heart alignment gratitude practice

46:30 - Why I wouldn't attend a motivational seminar again

Resources

Learn more about Tony here

I Am Not Your Guru - Tony Robbins documentary on Netflix

Awaken The Giant Within - Tony Robbins

Molly's Game - Molly Bloom

Unf*ck Yourself - Gary John Bishop

Girl, Wash your face - Rachel hollis

Gratitude blog post

Tim Ferriss - Tony Robbins episode

Subscribe to the FlowCast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-flowcast/id1456647259

Spotify:

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The FlowCast is brought to you by Flow Spa. Flow Spa is Peterborough’s float therapy and sports recovery centre, dedicated to providing the ultimate relaxation experience. Whether you need physical relief from pain or a deep state of mental relaxation and calm or the best methods of recovery from athletic training, Flow Spa is where you can Find Your Flow.

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Authenticity | FlowCast #32

We've heard from a lot of guests lately who are shining their own unique light which is helping to spread their message and build a following around their message. But how do you go about finding something truly authentic to you that resonates with your creative calling?

In this episode, Telsi and I share some tips about what it means to be authentic, how much more valuable it is for building your brand or business, and ways you can learn to become more authentic when just getting started.

1:00 - Authenticity coming up a lot on the podcast lately

1:30 - Forcing authenticity

2:45 - What happens when you take a break from social media?

3:15 - How Telsi feels about the concept of authenticity

5:25 - Going with your own flow

6:30 - Telsi's best content lately - authentic versus forced authenticity

8:00 - Stepping back from the line of fire

10:00 - What's your Just Cause?

11:45 - Showcasing your best work on Instagram

12:30 - The Best Photographers Don't Post Daily

13:45 - Authentic post is the tip of the iceberg

16:30 - How do you work from a place of authenticity when starting?

18:45 - Make it till you make it

22:45 - To build something real leave your expectations at the door

24:30 - Don't worry about the likes

27:30 - You'll stumble and crawl before learning to walk and run

Resources

Jess - Episode 31

Kent - Episode 28

Infinite Game - Simon Sinek

Start With Why - Simon Sinek

Creative Calling - Chase Jarvis

Subscribe to the FlowCast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-flowcast/id1456647259

Spotify:

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowspaon/

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The FlowCast is brought to you by Flow Spa. Flow Spa is Peterborough’s float therapy and sports recovery centre, dedicated to providing the ultimate relaxation experience. Whether you need physical relief from pain or a deep state of mental relaxation and calm or the best methods of recovery from athletic training, Flow Spa is where you can Find Your Flow.

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The Healthy Sweet Potato | FlowCast #31 with Jess Dalliday

Jess Dalliday is an entrepreneur, mom, podcast junkie, and the creator of Pilates on Demand and The Healthy Sweet Potato, a popular plant-based foodie blog.

In this information-packed episode, we talk about how Jess found her creative niche and the productivity system that she uses to pump out an incredible amount of top-calibre content.

Whether you’re looking to get in shape, revamp your productivity, or find your creative calling, this podcast episode is too good to miss.

Let’s dive in!

Show Notes:

2:30 - How Jess started blogging and school background

4:30 - Infertility issues

8:30 - how Jess regained her fertility

14:00 - how did Jess find her creative niche?

19:30 - Creativity and flow in non-traditional sources

21:00 - Creative Calling

23:00 - Creating for yourself instead of copying other people

24:45 - Planning out the year

25:15 - Prioritizing your tasks each day

28:45 - Taking a break from Instagram

35:30 - Acknowledge your accomplishments

39:30 - Be realistic with your daily priorities

40:15 - Jess’s planning methods

44:30 - What inspired Jess to start her own business

47:00 - Creating Pilates on Demand

50:00 - Jess’s sources of inspiration

53:00 - Virtual Mentorship

55:30 - Jess’s closing advice

Resources:

Fertility Story Part 1

Fertility Story Part 2

Creative Calling - Chase Jarvis

Pilates on Demand

Subscribe to the FlowCast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-flowcast/id1456647259

Spotify:

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowspaon/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FlowSpaON/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/flowspaon

The FlowCast is brought to you by Flow Spa. Flow Spa is Peterborough’s float therapy and sports recovery centre, dedicated to providing the ultimate relaxation experience. Whether you need physical relief from pain or a deep state of mental relaxation and calm or the best methods of recovery from athletic training, Flow Spa is where you can Find Your Flow.

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FlowCast #30 | Becoming a Quiet Leader

How can introverts create podcasts and YouTube channels? Telsi and I share our journeys and research into the connection between introverts and leadership.

00:45:00 - Introverts in the extrovert ideal world

3:00 - Telsi’s introverted path into personal training

6:30 - Recovering shyness

8:15 - How to identify introversion and extroversion

10:00 - The shift to introversion in adolescence

11:15 - Pushing yourself into leadership as an introvert

13:45 - Carving out your restorative niche

14:15 - RJ’s journey through shyness

17:15 - Free trait theory

20:30 - Burnout and adrenal fatigue

22:00 - Introduce yourself as being shy

24:00 - How to get out of your shell

29:00 - Be yourself - people will know if you are faking it

29:30 - How to do a podcast or YouTube channel as an introvert?

32:00 - Quiet confidence

34:30 - Energy balance between introverts and extroverts

36:00 - being in a relationship with an extrovert

39:30 - speaking up as an introvert

40:15 - Nervous system differences in extroverts and introverts

42:00 - Don’t drink orange juice before playing hockey

45:00 - Movement and meditation for nervous system control

47:00 - Flow and introversion

49:30 - Practice for athletics comes in solitude

51:45 - Tattoos and introversion

Resources

Quiet - Susan Cain

The Introverted Leader - Jennifer Kahnweiler

Subscribe to the FlowCast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-flowcast/id1456647259

Spotify:

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FlowCast #30 Teaser | Thriving as an Introvert and Delayed Gratification

This teaser episode and quick book recommendation is in preparation for Episode 30 talking about thriving as an introvert in an “extrovert ideal” world.

Also, a note on delayed gratification as today it is my brother’s birthday and yet he’s two weeks out from his physique competition so there will be no cake for him today.

Happy Birthday Jeff!

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You Don't Know Everything | FlowCast #29 with Nufás Media

The boys are back in town! Sean Thornton and Jordan Porter of Nufás Media are with us this week to talk about making Peterborough great again (not their tagline and not endorsed by Nufás, lol).

You might remember Jordan from being on the FlowCast a few episodes back and this time we had the dynamic duo of the Nufás boys in to talk about starting their business, finding balance with business partners, and the values that attract customers to them.

This conversation centred a little more of the spotlight on Sean but having Jordan in the studio with him made for a great dynamic in the conversation and it’s clear how these two work together so well in their business roles.

Show Notes:

1:30 - Who is Sean Thornton?

2:00 - Getting started in entrepreneurship through masonry with Stirling Chimney Services.

4:30 - Working with clients in the new location.

8:00 - The process of renovating the Nufás Office.

15:30 - What does Nufás Media do?

16:30 - Importance of having a business partner.

19:30 - Grant Cardone and the 10X Rule.

22:30 - How to get along with a business partner.

27:30 - Finding your own productive hours.

29:30 - Sean’s creative flow.

33:00 - Believe that it will work out.

36:30 - Having confidence in decisions.

37:10 - You have to be confident.

39:30 - You don’t know everything.

44:30 - The need to be adaptable.

48:00 - Make Peterborough great again.

50:30 - Business values.

Resources:

The 10X Rule - Grant Cardone

You can find out more about Nufás and follow along on their journey at:

Nufás Media

Address: 144 Hunter St. W - Lower, Peterborough

Web: nufasmedia.com

Instagram: @nufasmediaagency

Twitter: @nufasmedia


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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowspaon/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FlowSpaON/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/flowspaon

The FlowCast is brought to you by Flow Spa. Flow Spa is Peterborough’s float therapy and sports recovery centre, dedicated to providing the ultimate relaxation experience. Whether you need physical relief from pain or a deep state of mental relaxation and calm or the best methods of recovery from athletic training, Flow Spa is where you can Find Your Flow.



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Spreading Light With Business | FlowCast 28 with Kent Sheehey

Kent Sheehey has been on a journey of self-discovery since his teenage years when he first found fitness. He is an entrepreneur and the co-owner of Sweat Happy Wellness, a reformer pilates studio with locations in Peterborough and Lindsay. Along with his wife Becky, they have been bringing a refreshing and holistic take on fitness to the community and have been seeing great growth in their business by bringing that light. In this wide-ranging conversation, we talk about foraging, finding flow in music, and becoming a bearer of light and positivity in business.

Show Notes:

1:45 - Who is Kent Sheehey?

3:00 - Foraging

9:15 - Kent’s origins with fitness

11:30 - Kent’s nutrition evolution

14:30 - Eating 30 bananas a day

17:00 - Kent’s flow state

18:00 - How diet helps Kent’s flow state

21:00 - Music and flow

24:30 - Just be cool in business and flow *

29:30 - Spread light as a business

32:00 - Reformer Pilates and Sweat Happy Wellness

40:30 - Go Time

41:15 - Brain training with pilates and Animal Flow

43:15 - The performance of teaching classes

44:00 - The power of partnerships

45:30 - Key business lessons

Shout Outs

37:00 - Becky Sheehey @sweathappywellness

38:00 - Amy Stubb - @sustainableyogi

39:30 - @thehealthysweetpotato - Jess Daliday


Resources

Markus Rothkranz - Free Food and Medicine

https://amzn.to/35bocX8

Tero Isokauppila, Four Sigmatic Founder — Finding Mastery — Overcast



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Iron Warrior 2019 | FlowCast #27 with Dr. Sean Francis

Dr. Sean is a chiropractor, fitness bootcamp instructor, Canadian Reserves member, family man, and productivity master.

In this episode, we dive into his recent performance at the Canadian Forces Iron Warrior 2019 competition which is a gruelling military-style Iron Man event. We talk about the training and recovery leading up to the competition, how Dr. Sean improved so much over past years, and the mindset that goes into enduring such an event. We also cover some great business and productivity advice that Dr. Sean has implemented to creating success in multiple realms.

Follow Dr. Sean Francis and Towerhill Chiropractic online!

Show Notes:

00:45 - Who is Dr. Sean Francis?

2:00 - Canadian Forces Iron Warrior - what is this gruelling race?

7:15 - The Hasty Ps 100 mile march

9:00 - Training for the Iron Warrior

9:30 - Dr. Sean’s results at this year’s Iron Warrior

12:30 - The importance of training to perform at the very best level

14:10 - Toughest day should never be in combat *

17:00 - Where Sean first recognized the flow state and got hooked on seeking it

20:00 - Physical cues for flow

22:30 - Nutrition strategies for this year’s Iron Warrior

29:30 - If/When, Then Statements

31:00 - Finding balance with everything that Sean does.

35:30 - Recovery and creating space in your body

37:00 - Dr. Sean’s recovery with floating and cold therapy

40:00 - Maintaining the engine that is your body * - Take care of yourself - days will get tough

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FlowCast #26 | Jordan Porter

What a great podcast this was with Jordan Porter!

Recounting tales of the intense flow of extreme sports when your life is teetering on a slab of wood and debating the concept of achieving mastery in one field versus becoming a skilled jack-of-all-trades.

There were many laughs to be had during this conversation but Jordan also has a deep understanding of his own experience of flow both in physical and creative realms as he’s been an adrenaline junkie his whole life and has been honing the craft of writing since elementary school.

It’s always a fascinating journey to find the similarities and differences between these flow-inducing activities and Jordan delivered across the board while also giving great advice to anyone looking to start their own business.
Let’s Dive In!


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https://www.instagram.com/nufasmediaagency/

https://www.facebook.com/nufasmedia/

https://nufasmedia.com/

Show Notes:

3:15 - Who is Jordan Porter and what is Nufás Media?

5:15 - Monsters, If Not Human - Jordan’s writing journey

8:00 - What does Jordan’s flow state look like with writing and research?

10:00 - What’s in Jordan’s EDC?
11:30 - Jordan’s Longboarding Story and how it relates to flow

14:15 - Jordan’s flow experience

15:15 - The White Dragon Jordan is chasing.

17:45 - Jordan’s Radio show on Trent Radio

23:45 - Nufás Media - new business media brokerage

26:10 - What does Nufás mean?

27:30 - What challenges is Jordan facing with a new business?

28:30 - Mastery vs. Jack-of-all-trades

38:30 - Defining Mastery

41:30 - The success of true masters

42:15 - The evolution of master rock climbers - proto-monkey humans

43:30 - The toolkit of masters is often masked under the masterpiece.
44:30 - The value of a business partner

47:00 - Actionable business advice from Jordan

50:15 - The Art of Wilkins - hometown example of perseverance

54:00 - Side hustles and breaking through entropy





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Naturopathic Medicine with Laura Anderson | FlowCast #24

Laura Anderson is a naturopathic doctor in Peterborough who has been able to create a life around the things that she is passionate about. In this wide-ranging conversation we cover Laura’s journey into naturopathic medicine, her take on following your gut to find your true calling, how naturopathic medicine can help you, and simple practices you can implement to make your life better. Let’s dive in!

Show Notes:

6:50 - How Laura overcame her obstacles to switch from the traditional university route into naturopathy

10:10 - Finding your place in school

12:30 - How Laura listens to her gut

16:45 - What is naturopathy?

22:00 - Any type of patient better suited for naturopathy?

23:00 - The Obi Wan of medicine

27:00 - Old modalities becoming validated by science again

29:40 - Air is free

30:30 - Laura’s meditation practice

33:30 - Has Laura found her flow?

34:20 - The timing of flow

37:45 - Gratitude journaling and tips for starting change process in your own life

42:00 - Change your lifestyle long-term

43:30 - Laura’s take on social media

47:50 - Nobody has the perfect life.

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Comparison is the Thief of Joy | FlowCast #23

We live in a world obsessed with comparisons. The drawback is that you cannot find your own flow when comparing yourself to others. In this episode, we break down Theodore Roosevelt's classic quote and talk about strategies for freeing yourself from the vicious comparison cycle.

Show Notes:

2:00 - Why people disagree that comparison is the thief of joy

4:00 - Comparison and flow states

11:30 - Coaching role in Flow

12:30 - comparison in school

15:00 - self-awareness of what’s right for you

16:50 - Instagram - getting rid of likes

18:22 - Social media and business

18:50 - Thinking Fast and Slow - Daniel Kahneman

22:20 - Comparison and authenticity

30:00 - Being where you’re supposed to be

37:00 - Earning trust outperforms envy

40:00 - Authenticity on social media

45:30 - Where is your joy sourced from?

47:00 - The FlowCast case study of non-comparison.

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The Flow of Fighting | FlowCast #22 with Mike Doherty

In this week’s FlowCast episode we dive into the flow of fighting with Mike Doherty. Mike is the owner of Dohjo Muay Thai gym and is fresh off of an IKF Worlds tournament win.


We talk about the recent fights him and his teammates won as well as get into some past stories about how Mike used his mastery of his emotions to beat a fighter in Thailand at his own mental game. I love this story and think that level of awareness in such a high-stakes environment shows an exceptional level of self-awareness and flow.


We also got into how Mike balances his emotional states and the challenges of running a business with being a world-class fighter.


You will not want to miss this episode, so let’s dive right in!


Show Notes:


1:30 - Fresh off of an IKF World’s win

3:20 - Growth opportunity from a loss and how the growth mindset spreads

6:00 - Motives for fighting - Mike’s philosophy

6:30 - How Mike defines self-mastery

10:00 - Daily journal practice used for separating different parts of life.

12:30 - Stoic philosophy - what it means to Mike

15:20 - Dealing with performance anxiety

17:55 - Why Mike became a fighter

19:50 - The story of how he beat a Thai fighter at his own mental game

22:55 - The Flow of Fighting

23:15 - Key components of Flow Mike identifies with in fights

25:25 - How long in his fight career did it take him to recognize the flow state

29:30 - Fight rituals or superstitions

31:45 - Ultimate end-goal with fighting

32:50 - How to perform at such a high level in fighting while also running a business?

36:50 - Best ways to overcome anxiety?

41:15 - Thoughts on social media and how to handle it as a business

47:00 - Mike’s time tracking method for productivity.


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FlowCast #21 | Wim Hof Fundamentals Review

In this episode of the FlowCast, I'm doing the full review of the Wim Hof fundamentals 10-week course.

We'll go over the basic breathing techniques and physical challenges that encompass the Wim Hof Method (WHM). Find out how to gradually improve your breath-hold time by deeply oxygenating your body and how you can increase your tolerance to cold exposure in order to do cold plunges just like the Iceman.

Finally, I cover some of the different reasons you may want to try the Wim Hof Method for yourself and how you can further get involved in the community in Peterborough.

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FlowCast #20 | Time Management Success for Flow States and Deep Work

Topics from the Show Notes:

Tackling Your Resistance - The Amateur vs. Professional Mindset

SMART Goals and Goal Setting

Making Physical Activity Work For You

Circadian Timing for Tasks

Lists and Compartmentalizing different jobs

Chunking Down Your Goals

Just In Time vs. Just In Case Knowledge

Additional Resources:

Alice’s Theme - Danny Elfman

Impact Theory Podcast - Tom Bilyeu

Books:

4-hour Work Week - Tim Ferriss

Deep Work - Cal Newport

The War of Art - Steven Pressfield

Smarter, Faster, Better - Charles Duhigg

When - Daniel Pink

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FlowCast #19 | The Questions You Ask Are The Life You Live

This was an intermediate podcast episode this week as Telsi was away and I wanted to talk a bit about questions because they structure the life around us.

The questions you ask are the reality you live. If you always ask questions from a negative tilt, you’re going to have to constantly battle that negativity.

Rephrasing questions and being precise in your language can lead to a massive shift in your perspective and outcome.

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FlowCast #18 | Animal Flow Live

This week on the podcast we were at House Fitness getting a quick update from Telsi about her journey to becoming an Animal Flow instructor prior to her first bootcamp session.

We talked about how she discovered and found a passion for Animal Flow, the time and financial budgeting she went through to accomplish this goal, and what the future for Peterborough looks like in terms of how others can join in to learn Animal Flow from Telsi!

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