Creating a Sleep Routine For Consistently Getting Better Sleep
We all have faced sleep issues at one point in time or another. It seems inevitable that sleep will eventually be impacted by our external circumstances and we’ll have to do something about it to get back on track.
Whether it’s a struggle to fall asleep or to stay asleep, we know what it feels like when our sleep isn’t as good as it should be.
Sleep is undeniably the most important step to improving your wellness.
If this critical component isn’t addressed first and foremost, it doesn’t matter what other health hacks you try to use, they will not fix the root cause of your issues.
So whether you think that you’re a world-class sleeper or you know that you can do better, read on and pick up or remind yourself of a thing or two that can help to make a difference in your sleep.
A Sleep Primer
Before we snuggle under the covers of the best tips to help you sleep, let’s take a really quick look at the importance of sleep and the different sleep stages.
Most of us are aware that sleep is essential to good health. We all need certain amounts of sleep each night in order to feel and function at our best. Usually, we can estimate this number pretty well based on our past but these numbers also change as we age. The simplest strategy is to test waking up without an alarm clock on a morning when this is possible for you. If you slept well and feel well-rested then you’ve got a good idea of how much sleep you consistently need. This test works even more reliably after several days of waking without an alarm, so make a plan to try it out for yourself and go sans alarm clock for your next vacation (or staycation).
When we sleep, our brains and bodies use the time to go through a dishwasher cycle and scrub clean our internal systems. This is an essential recovery process for performing our best and without it, our health will decline over time. Sleep is used for memory consolidation, repair from physical activity, and for reducing stress on our brains and bodies.
We cycle through different phases during sleep and each phase is essential for a well-balanced sleep.
Pre-Bed Routines
The way we prepare for bed is one of the keys to better sleep. There are many different things that we can do to get ourselves ready for bed and the best way to know what works for you is to be open-minded to trying as many strategies as you can over time and sort out the tips that are too inconvenient for your circumstances.
Food
For many people, the timing as well as the food choices for our last meal of the day can impact our sleep quality quite dramatically. Going to bed too full or too hungry will make it difficult to fall asleep (sleep latency) and may also affect the amount of deep sleep that you get or the overall quality of your sleep.
Usually, it’s best to have your last meal a couple of hours prior to bed and not eat to the point of feeling stuffed. For individuals who eat relatively low carb diets or are on a stricter diet, also eating carbs with the last meal of the day is a way to signal the body into a calmer state and helps with relaxing and triggering sleep.
Experimenting with the right combinations of foods and timing for your best sleep quality, like with any of these strategies, takes some patience to find your own sweet spot.
Drugs and Alcohol
Nightcaps and other options for taking the edge off at the end of the day are sedatives that help to initiate sleep but they come at a cost. We know from research that alcohol, THC, and even prescription sleep medications all reduce the amount of deep sleep that we get which is the time when our brains and bodies go through most of the important restoration at night.
Whenever possible, we should try to get away from these options being our go-to strategy for sleep.
One alternative that helps to calm our minds and prepare for sleep and also seems to support better sleep quality is using a CBD tincture that doesn’t contain any THC. CBD is an anti-inflammatory compound found in cannabis and hemp and a dose of around 20 mg seems to effectively induce sleep and also contribute to better quality sleep overall.
Screen Time and Work
After the sun goes down, our brains are already thinking that it’s time to get ready for sleep. When the receptors in our eyes sense this change, our brains start to release the circadian clock hormone of melatonin which initiates sleep and also helps to keep us asleep.
The blue light from our digital devices is known to impact melatonin production to some extent which is why if you have trouble falling asleep, it may help to adjust your tech time in the evening so that the screens go away 1-2 hours before bedtime. Not only is this helpful for reducing blue light exposure that may blunt melatonin release, but it’s also a lot less stimulating which will also help your mind to calm down and get ready for sleep.
Whether you work on your device or just scroll through social media, an important part of getting better sleep is to let your mind settle down through less stimulation. A lot of people work relentlessly until the minute their head hits the pillow and then wonder why they spend all night thinking about their to-do list and the work they have to do the next day.
Winding Down
Instead of watching tv or playing on your phone, use the last 1-2 hours of the day to read a book, have a relaxing conversation with family or friends, get outside for a walk, or do any other enjoyable and peaceful hobby.
Sometimes watching tv at the end of the day is the truly pleasurable or mindless activity that someone wants to do, which is ok as well, and if this is the case, it’s a good idea to look into trying a pair of blue light blocking glasses. Blue light blockers help to reduce the amount of blue light your eyes are exposed to which can help if you are particularly sensitive to the effects blue light can have on your sleep quality.
When you give your mind permission to settle down, it will follow suit for you over time.
Sleep Hygiene
Sleep hygiene is a term that’s used to describe the environment in which you sleep, and involves making it as supportive of your sleep quality as possible.
When it comes to sleep hygiene, the three main factors we want to control are:
Temperature
Timing
Light
Controlling the amount of light in your bedroom is important for the same reason that we want to reduce our blue light exposure when winding down to sleep. Ideally, we want our bedroom to be as dark as possible, which may mean looking into getting blackout blinds or using a sleep mask to block out the light. Any devices that emit light should also be unplugged in your bedroom, moved to a different room, or use electrical tape to cover up any tiny lights on the devices.
Our bodies signal to us that it’s time to sleep when body temperature drops by a few degrees and so much of us get our best sleep in slightly cooler rooms, typically in the mid-60s. When your bedroom isn’t exclusively your own bear cave and you’re sleeping with a partner, you may consider using a fan or a cooling pad on your bed to help with the temperature regulation. Using a fan can also create a helpful white noise if you live in a noisy neighbourhood that isn’t a constant sound.
Timing is another important factor with your sleep hygiene and schedule. Consistently going to bed at the same time will help with sleep quality and usually, the best way to initiate this is by waking up at the same time every morning regardless of if it’s a weekday or weekend.
When it comes to getting enough sleep and still waking up on a consistent schedule, most sleep experts recommend that you keep your wake up time the same even if you missed out on a full night of sleep and to try to catch up on the sleep you missed by going to bed early the following night.
Staying Asleep
Staying asleep can be a big problem for a lot of us. Maybe you fall asleep no problem because you’re super tired all the time but then your body jolts you awake in the night and you struggle to get back asleep. Some people will just get up and start their day, or pace the house, or go and watch tv or read a book.
It can take some experimentation to find what works best for you but sleep experts like Matthew Walker suggest that we don’t stay in bed, not even to try to meditate or read something. It’s best to get up and move to another room to do something calming, even boring, like that and once it feels like you’re ready to sleep again, go back to your bed. This keeps you conditioned to see the bed as the place to sleep and not just a cozy reading or meditation nook.
Healthy Wakeups
Being blasted out of bed by a blaring alarm may be one way to wake up but it sets your body off with stress first thing in the morning, which is not a great way to start the day. Our bodies naturally release more of the stress hormone cortisol as we start to wake up which helps with alertness but we still want to enter our days with relative calmness.
This is why it’s great to have a morning routine that lets you not rush out the door to start your day. Train yourself to wake to a soothing alarm or no alarm at all and do the things that set you up for a successful day in the morning, whether it involves meditating, exercise, journaling, writing, or another hobby that you enjoy. Unless the night time is when you perform your best, the peace and quiet of the morning are when we can do the things that we like that set us up for our best day possible.
Getting exposure to the sun in the morning is another tool to use for setting your circadian rhythm and priming yourself for wakeful alertness throughout the day. Get outside near sunrise whenever possible in order to take advantage of this naturally occurring mechanism.
So don’t miss out on the opportunity to audit your morning routine for a more healthful wake up because it will set you up for continuing a positive spiral with your sleep cycle and continuing to see better sleep.